Lauren Weiler for CheatSheets wrote about the dark secrets nursing homes do not want the public to know.
1. Some contracts don’t allow you to sue if something goes wrong:
Knapp & Roberts notes you should review all of the print in your paperwork, and keep a watchful eye out for anything noting “binding arbitration agreements.” Essentially, this agreement means you must settle your differences outside of court, removing your right to sue. If anything serious happens, you certainly don’t want to be bound by this clause.
2. Residents don’t always have as much freedom as they want:
One study found out of 65 nursing home residents interviewed, about half felt depressed due to a lack of independence and freedom, as well as loneliness. The interviewees also seemed to prefer homes that had programs designed to reduce their sense of isolation from others.
3. Residents don’t always get enough to eat:
4. Some of the ‘nurses’ aren’t nurses at all:
Every nursing home has some number of permanent nurses — but not everyone working is a staff member you’ll see again. Bottom Line Inc. explains “agency nurses” are often employed when a home is low on permanent staff. These temporary nurses work for staffing agencies and rarely form bonds with residents because of their position. For your comfort, it’s wise to choose a home with a staff that’s at least 80% permanent nurses.
5. Residents often have to leave the doctors they’re used to behind:
Knapp & Roberts explains most nursing homes have assigned physicians, which makes it difficult for residents to keep the doctors they’re used to seeing. If you’re really attached to your current doctor, it’s best to ask a potential home about their rules regarding this. You should also ask the home how often the physicians see their residents and what the health care plans may look like before committing.
6. Low staffing levels are a huge issue:
Up to 95% of American nursing homes may be understaffed.
Some homes have a difficult time finding enough staff, but other homes purposely understaff to cut costs. Having a bad patient to staff ratio is stressful for the staff and bad for your care. It may also leave you vulnerable to neglect and abuse. Be sure to ask what the patient to staff ratio is in your chosen home so you can ensure you’re getting the care you’re promised. There should be at least 4.1 hours per person per day of direct nursing care.
7. Nursing homes may send a bill to relatives for the resident’s care:
According to Mass Mutual, the average amount paid for assisted living in 2017 was $3,750 per month. While you may have multiple ways of taking care of these costs, you should ensure none of the expenses accidentally get sent out to relatives. This happened in 2012 to a man who was forced to pay nearly $100,000 of his mother’s care without realizing it. Know what your state laws are regarding billing, and as always, have both you and your family members read the fine print.
8. The staff isn’t always clean:
Nursing home staff are careful with washing their hands, right? While this may seem like an obvious practice of personal hygiene and to prevent the spread of infections and communicable diseases, not all staff members participate. The New York Times reports many nursing homes are being cited for “hand hygiene” deficiencies. Unsurprisingly, the nursing homes that were understaffed found the most hand-washing issues. Finding a well-staffed home may be key to your overall health.
9. Nursing assistants don’t need as much training as you think:
They may seem official, but many nursing assistants have no formal training at all to take care of you. NursingAssistantGuides.com explains some clinics will hire untrained workers and train them to be nursing assistants at the facility. Even for those who have a degree as a CNA, that can be acquired online with no hands-on experience. And many CNAs start at nursing homes and then move on to jobs with better pay, making the turnover rate incredibly high. CNAs are not licensed health care providers.
10. Neglect is a common issue in the homes:
Next Avenue explains out of all the cases of nursing home abuse, neglect is the most common. While there are times when neglect is intentional, it isn’t always this malicious. Inadequate staffing and high turnover rates can also lead to this issue. When choosing a nursing home, take a look at the other residents. Do they seem clean and well taken care of? The living quarters should also be clean and safe, with little wear and tear.
11. Some nursing homes may tell you to get extra aid outside of their care:
Staff in your chosen home are required to provide you with the care you need. If you’re ever told you need an outside aid to assist you for additional costs, Knapp & Roberts says to take note. This is negligence on the part of the nursing home.
12. The physical therapy units aren’t always up to snuff:
While you may be more concerned with what the rooms and eating areas look like, don’t forget to tour the physical therapy unit. Bottom Line Inc. explains if you require rehab of any kind, this is particularly important. Take a look at the machinery and ask if physical therapists are on the staff itself or just doing contractual work. If your nursing home is staffed with physical therapists, it’s likely to give you better service.
13. The ‘activities schedule’ might be a total bust:
U.S. News & World Report reminds us many nursing homes are still lacking in the activities department. While birthday parties and Bingo are commonplace, you’ll need more than that when choosing a place for your future. And the best homes will ask each resident about their interests to try and accommodate as many people as possible. Certain homes offer gardening clubs, cooking classes, and art therapy, so make sure you ask what’s available.
14. Most residents will have a lack of privacy:
While many folks in nursing homes like having company, there’s also another issue you may not have thought of: a lack of privacy. Bottom Line Inc. explains most homes offer a wide range of shared rooms, with private rooms costing serious cash. Not all shared rooms are bad, however. You’ll just want to make sure what’s dividing your bed from someone else’s is sturdier than a thin curtain.
15. More serious forms of abuse take place, too:
The National Council on Aging report about one out of every 10 Americans over 60 experience abuse — and it can even occur in nursing homes, Spangenberg Shibley & Liber LLP says. Neglect aside, the publication notes sexual assault and abuse has also been cited in certain homes. And many other instances of abuse go unreported. Do your research to see if any abuse allegations have been filed against your home of choice.